The difference between Ukrainian men and Western men: from Ukraine women’s view

Dear friends,

There is a lot of discussion on the Internet about the difference between Russian & Ukrainian women and Western women, but there have been fewer conversations and discussions about a Ukrainian woman’s views about the difference between being with a Ukrainian (and also Russian) man and a Western man.

As we know, the most Western men guess that Ukrainian and Russian men drink too much, do not have the suitable respect for their women. Moreover, it is a known fact that the Ukrainian and Russian men like to have several ladies on the side.

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I have my own opinion about Ukrainian and Russian men (I must say honestly it is rather negative). Therefore, I wanted to find out what Ukrainian and Russian women think about their men. I’ve searched on the internet and found some interesting opinions. I wanted to find the anwers to my questions:

  • What is the difference between Ukrainian men and Western men?
  • What do Ukrainian women miss most about being with a Ukrainian man?
  • What do Ukrainian women like most about being with a Western man?

Well, I am presenting the two most interesting and detailed opinions about Ukrainian and Russian men (only from a Ukrainian and Russian woman’s point of view :)):

1) Ukrainian woman************************************************************************************

2) Ukraine dating



From my personal experience, I can say that I agree with the insights of Tanja and Elena.  I was five years with a Russian man together. I made some observations, namely: Russian and Ukrainian men are selfish. Their desires are most important in the world. Moreover, a big drinking problem of the Ukrainian and Russian men is there. And yes, it is true that the Ukrainian and Russian men often have at least one mistress.

I would like to say something in defense of Ukrainian and Russian men. Of course, there are really nice Russian men who love and respect their wives and kids.

But Ukrainian man? No thank you! I can imagine to stay only with a Western man together!

Questions? Feel free to ask Krystyna, your Ukrainian dating expert 🙂 (s. here: Contact Krystyna)



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Krystyna is a Russian and Ukrainian dating blogger and Youtube video coach. On Ukrainian dating blog, you find more than 500 articles on dating Russian and Ukrainian ladies. Enjoy! No time to look for specific information or article? Check my “Krystyna’s lessons on successful dating Ukrainian ladies”. The guide offers you useful tips you must follow on your adventure to find your special Ukrainian woman for marriage. For more info, just click HERE

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9 Responses

  1. hilton says:


    Out of all the articles written, this has the be the best one of ALL time! I’m going to have to go back and re-read this one 5 or 10 times 🙂

    It’s that good. This article hits a major blood vein, in my head and heart, because it’s the exact thing that I spoke about, as a response to one of your other articles, about American women. To make a long story short, what Elena and Tanja has written about Russian/Ukrainian men is the exact thing that I wrote about American females!!! The way Ukrainian men treat and act with Ukrainian women is the way American women treat and act around American men. That’s why there’s a record number of american men NOT dating or marrying american women these days..

    You were correct when you said that you had some good ideas about what to write about when you came from your recent vacation 🙂

    Now…let me go back and re-read this article… 🙂

    Mahalo from hawaii,


  2. ukrainian man says:

    Well, it’s not true ALL Ukrainian men are bad or something. There’re still many good, reliable and responsible men in Ukraine, as well as lots of Western men who are selfish, shallow and so on.

  3. Mira says:

    My husband was Ukrainian and all his friends were from the Ukraine or Russia. He treated me really poorly and his friends sat around and watched without saying a word to him. Then they all ganged up on me from time to time for not being a good enough when all I really was doing was staying at home, cooking, and cleaning. One of his friends even made my husband believe that I was lying about my education background and aspirations. (I was planning on going to law school and his friend who was going to professional school convinced my husband that I was not capable of it.) I eventually left him to start school and within a few months, he had a new girlfriend. I’m not the type to jump from relationship to relationship. I genuinely loved my husband, but unfortunately the fact that he didn’t treat me right and his behavior that was reinforced by his friends prevented us from having a fulfilling relationship. I’m sure not all guys from that area are bad, but this is 5 men I’m talking about here. Not just my husband. They all were divorced or were in relationships with girls they wouldn’t even outwardly call their girlfriends. Strange to me, to be honest.

  4. proud Ukrainian man says:

    Ukrainian woman? No thank you! I prefer foreign girls, from my side. And a part of Ukrainian men share same preference!

  5. Abbey says:

    I’m going to find out so far been good

  6. Anonymous says:

    I am in love with a Ukrainain man. But I am not Ukrainian. So I can not see from a Ukrainian girl’s point of view. But surely I want to say about my expreience, which is very good indeed!

    It’s been almost 3 years we are together. The amount of respect I got from my handsome (2 years younger than me) Kievian man, I never got it from anybody else in my 32 years old life. He likes me the way I am, with all my good and bad. The best thing is that he never dominates me, whatever I prefer! Last several months we are far away because of work. But I know that how much faithfil he is to me!

    Bad sides? yes of course, he is not GOD! Very introvert! I have to know everything from his face, he will not say anything! And also he will never say that he misses me! Also till now he did not admit that if he loves me or not, even though I did. I guess he has some commitment issue. He is not ready yet for marriage.

    But really, we are in such healthy relationship, I really don’t care if he is now not ready for commitment. If we go this way, it will come in time I am sure! 🙂

  7. Leyra says:

    I think you wrote a lot of craps, maybe for a business reason? I am a western woman engaged with an Ukrainian man and I can say he is a real prince, a gentleman, never seen him drunk, never seen him flirting with an other girl. He helps me at home, he is family-oriented (we wait for our own child now). Don’t be so dreaming about western men, my ex was Southern European and he wasn’t that great. Men are men. Ukrainian men are also more good-looking, they have wonderful light-eyes, long legs, soft skin. We will get married next year.

  1. January 15, 2012

    […] most of the Western men say that Ukrainian and Russian ladies are the most tender, loving, honest, hardworking, and caring women they have ever met. In their opinion, Ukrainian women are the perfect wives and mothers. We all know this. Furthermore, we know what Ukrainian and Russian women think about Ukrainian and Russian men and why they want to find a partner abroad (s. here: The difference between Ukrainian men and Western men: from Ukraine women’s view). […]

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