10 Most Useful Tips on Finding & Dating a Ukrainian Woman
That is a known fact that every year, hundreds of Ukrainian women walk down the aisle to marry foreign men. Why? I am not sure but Ukrainian women are known to be fun, dedicated and lovely women, right? 🙂 That is why foreign men pursue them and want to marry them.
I have written already that most foreigners meet Ukrainian women via online dating sites. Often correspondence between the men with the Ukrainian women goes on for weeks or months before they agree to meet for the first time. There is no hard and fast rule on how long should the initial correspondence be before the first meeting. Generally though, this happens after 2 months of chatting, videoconferencing or emailing online.
If you are one of those men who are interested in finding and dating a Ukrainian woman, here are some of the most useful tips you need to know:
Tip #1. Read about Ukrainian women.
Get to know Ukrainian women as much as possible before you start meeting or chatting with them online. Learn about Ukrainian culture, history and way of life. This will give you an idea how a typical lady from Ukraine lives her life. You can gather information by doing searches on search engine. Type the keywords “Ukrainian dating”, “Ukrainian brides”, “Ukrainian ladies” and other similar words. These will pull up much needed ideas and advices on what you should know about Ukrainian women and dating them.
Read about experiences of men who have married Ukrainian women. You will get useful tips from them on how to make the marriage work. You can also get a real life glimpse on marriage between men and Ukrainian women.
Of course, I would recommend you to read Ukrainian Dating Blog und Ukrainian Dating Stories by Krystyna. 🙂 Many useful information about Ukrainian online dating, users’ experiences and reviews are guaranteed.
Tip #2. Age differences.
Most Ukrainian women prefer older men. A 10 to 15 year age difference is acceptable. But usually women like men to be just a few years older than them. Compatibility is one of the deciding factors that Ukrainian women use to choose the foreign man that they will marry.
Tip #3. Find a reputable Ukrainian dating agency.
A Ukrainian dating agency can help you communicate with your woman. The agency helps interprets letters and calls. They can also write email in behalf of the woman. They can arrange video chat. They generally facilitate the dating experience between the foreigner and the Ukrainian woman.
Research the agency before subscribing to their services. Ask for referrals from other men. Choose the one that is most recommended.
Tip #4. Gradual acquaintance.
Meeting face to face is a good idea but you should make the woman emotionally ready for the experience. The natural order of things is to meet online via dating sites or dating agencies, correspondence via email, chatting, phone conversations before actual meeting. Later, once you meet in person and decide on marrying her, you need to secure a fiancée visa before she can come to your country and marry you. It is important to assure the woman that you are in for the long haul. Also, that you know the whole process and are willing to go through them no matter how difficult or how long they may take.
Tip #5. Write a great first letter.
Customize your letter according to a woman’s preferences. It will not be a good idea to send the same letter to all the women that you meet online. Writing a personalized letter about yourself, your likes and dislikes, education, work and other pertinent details will be greatly appreciated.
Tip #6. Use chats, emails, instant messengers, videoconferencing.
Use technology to your advantage to get to know the woman well. Videoconferencing will help you verify the woman’s identity. Some unscrupulous people might pretend to be a woman to be able to get money from foreign men. Teach the woman how to use these programs.
Tip #7. Be honest
At the start, you may chat with a number of women. Later, you need to trim down your choices to a few. Be honest to the women. Let them know that you are chatting with other women as well. The woman might not like it too much if you keep this a secret from her.
Tip #8. The place of the first meeting in person
When deciding to meet the woman, there are three options available to you. One is to visit Ukraine. Second, is to ask the woman to fly to your country. And lastly, to meet in a different country. If you live in the US, you can ask the woman to come visit you. Or, if she cannot travel to US and you are traveling to France for a business meeting, for instance, you can arrange to meet her there.
Tip #9. Money matters.
This is one important aspect of meeting and eventually marrying a Ukrainian woman. Be prepared to shell out $7,000 to $10,000. The money will be needed for travel purposes and the filing of fiancée visa. Of course, you also need to spend additional money for the wedding and then the subsequent Adjustment of Status and Green Card. All these steps require payment.
Tip #10. Avoid Ukrainian dating scammers.
Another money aspect that you need to know is how to avoid scammers. The most important thing to remember when dealing with online dating is to never send the woman money. This will discourage women who are only after making money off you. This will help determine if the Ukrainian woman truly loves you and not your material possessions.
Dear Gentlemen, I hope so much that my most useful and simple tips on finding and dating a Ukrainian lady will help you to become happy together with your special woman from Ukraine 🙂
Questions? Feel free to ask Krystyna, your Ukrainian dating expert 🙂 (s. here: Contact Krystyna)