Three questions about dating Ukrainian ladies for marriage

Hi Krystyna,

I’ve just contacted a nice woman from Odessa and she is … obviously younger than me. I’m 55 and she is 36 yo with one child. She declared a serious interest on me. I notice a sort of cooling and also a less rich text from the two beginning message (very interested) and the last one after I bought the contact direct e-mail.

To make it short my question is :

1) Are all the text written by the woman I contacted ? It seems to me that a virtual someone takes cares of first letters in order to take you to buy services.

2) Does each woman earn a sort of commission on the economic transfer that I have with dating company.

3) I sended all my details to her (Phone, mobile, Skype…) but she answered me also by e-mail. Is it polite to ask her for and Identity card scanning sending to me ? Is it rude ?

Many thanks

Giovanni

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Krystyna answers:

Krystyna

Krystyna

Ciao Giovanni,

I do my best to answer your questions in details!

To your questions:

1) Are all the text written by the woman I contacted ?  It seems to me that a virtual someone takes cares of first letters in order to take you to buy services.

First, I want to ask you what agency you chose? Then I can answer you if the agency has a good image or not. It is really not easy to answer this question. From one hand, I am sure that on honest dating sites, the women write the first messages by themselves. But from the other hand, there are some not serious and not fair dating services with the following moral, namely: the dating company staff writes the first messages to the men in order they start the communication and buy more credits.

See here the stories of translators of dating agencies:

  1. http://ukrainiandatingblog.com/2012/04/lost-translation-5-stories-marriage-agency-translators/
  2. http://ukrainiandatingblog.com/2012/02/insiders-look-russian-dating-industry-russian-womans-view/

2) Does each woman earn a sort of commission on the economic transfer that I have with dating company.

I do not think that EACH woman registered on the dating site earns or gets a sort of commission on the economic transfer for the dating company.
Ukrainian women with serious intentions to find a man abroad may use the dating services for free but only the company earns the money. Professional pro-daters and translators surely earn the commission.

3) I sended all my details to her (Phone, mobile, Skype…) but she answered me also by e-mail. Is it polite to ask her for and Identity card scanning sending to me ? Is it rude?

Being open and honest is the most important issues in a relationship. You can ask her if she would like to communicate via other ways like Skype and mobile in order to get to know each other better. You can explain her that you are very interested in her and would like to start a more personal communication than only via email.

If she declares a serious interest on you, so she can prove her interest in this way.  At the very beginning, I would not recommend you to ask for her identity card. Trust is important, as well. And we have to learn trusting if we want to find a partner for life.

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I have  a reader from the USA. He got married a year ago and has some prejudices about Ukrainian women all the time. He is not able to trust and is looking for bad features all the time. He is not happy and does not make his Ukrainian wife happy. Thus, if you cannot trust, my advice is stop it!

Last thing:

I’ve just contacted a nice woman from Odessa and she is … obviously younger than me. I’m 55 and she is 36 yo with one child.

In my experience, men enjoy being with a younger woman because young women like myself are youthful, energetic, and fun. However, a relationship is much more then just fun and games. Is it possible for a 55 year old man to have a successful relationship with a 35 year old woman of Ukraine? Yes, it is possible!

In order for an older man to have a successful relationship with a younger Ukrainian or Russian woman, he must not obsess over the age gap. The woman should not obsess over the age gap either. Dwelling on age will get the relationship nowhere. The relationship is less about age and more about the compatibility between the two.

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A man should not just begin dating Ukrainian girls just because he feels like it. Instead, he should attempt to find one that is not just young and beautiful but also has many compatibilities with him. If the man and woman have some similar hobbies and interests, the relationship is more likely to last longer.

Another essential point that an older man should ALWAYS remember is that most young women are very energetic when it comes to sexuality. While an older man may not be able to perform as he used to when he was younger, he must understand that a young woman needs to be satisfied sexually in order to maintain a happy and healthy relationship.

Sex and intimacy is not the most important factor in a relationship but it does play a huge role in keeping both partners happy. If she is not sexually satisfied, she may seek sex from another. In my opinion, if you are an older man and you want to keep up with a young woman but do not feel as though you have enough energy, get on Viagra immediately. Do not waste time being ashamed! Trust me, you will both thoroughly enjoy the sex and if you are enjoying it, you will both be happy.

Saluti!


krystyna

krystyna

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Love,

Krystyna

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Krystyna

Krystyna

Krystyna is a Russian and Ukrainian dating blogger and Youtube video coach. On Ukrainian dating blog, you find more than 500 articles on dating Russian and Ukrainian ladies. Enjoy! No time to look for specific information or article? Check my “Krystyna’s lessons on successful dating Ukrainian ladies”. The guide offers you useful tips you must follow on your adventure to find your special Ukrainian woman for marriage. For more info, just click HERE

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