Ukrainian online communication after Skype: what’s your next move?
So, you’ve been online with a Ukrainian lady who makes your heart go pitter-patter and are now wondering how to take the relationship to the next level, or if it’s even ready to go there. You know you want to make the right moves and get closer, but how? Online romances usually reach an impasse and this critical point can be a real test for both of you; what’s your next move and will she be ready? Is a trip to her country in your immediate future?
Once you’ve reached the point where you want to meet your online Ukrainian lady in person, have a few more conversations that are more specifically designed to test your compatibility and the strength of the relationship.
Find out how she spends her time at home and what her response is to how you spend yours. Provide her with plenty of opportunity to express herself, her designs on life and all of her favorite things; as you in turn do the same; watch for subtle reactions that tell you she can’t wait to experience the real you in person.
Doing things together via Skype is a great way to normalize the uniqueness of cyber-life. Plan a real dinner together where you both sit down to enjoy, and light a few candles on your side of the picture.
Put a single rose in a vase so that she truly has a sense of your romantic side and receives a clear message of your intentions. Read a newspaper together and gauge her reactions or discuss important social and political issues with one another.
Argue, debate and let who each of you truly are shine right through the screens. As much as you may want to impress her, it’s very important that she sees and interacts with the “real” you and you with her.
After you have established a strong connection, and know that the two of you should meet in person, check into the details quietly and approach the topic with her appropriately. Avoid making it sound like a spontaneous weekend getaway, which could belittle her potential feelings; if you are both ready, give it the full attention and conversation it deserves. Plan it well, let the anticipation build.
Expect butterflies and second-guessing, but don’t get caught up on potential negatives that involve little things. If the two of you have gotten this far and still want to get closer, you just know that you are onto something and should take the next step in the relationship.
If you really feel you have found that special someone in Russia or Ukraine, take a step back and take a deep breath: every move you make now is vital to the continuation of the relationship and bringing you closer to a meet-up in person.
Take good care of your Ukrainian lady online and be sensitive to the real woman she is. She will look forward to meeting you, knowing you are the kind of man she can feel comfortable with. Take it slow without stalling and take it to each level carefully; soon you will both be ready to take it all the way to a real, in-person and amazing encounter! 😉
Questions? Feel free to ask Krystyna, your Ukrainian dating expert 🙂 (s. here: Contact Krystyna)