Three questions about Ukrainian romance tours and ladies

Hi Krystyna,

I am using a shortened name and one of my secondary email addresses as I don’t know if you post emails on the blog and I want to keep this anonymous.

I am an single Indian guy, 27, settled in the US. I have studied here and have a steady and well paying job, on the way to a green card. I have always wanted to date (and if things work out, marry) an Eastern European woman since they have the right mix of beauty, humility and culture. I recently learned about this whole romance tour industry and am super excited to think my dream can actually come true. But I have a few questions which make me nervous and it will be grateful if you could answer some of them:

1. Although I am settled in US, I am of Indian origin, something which makes me a rare species in this context. I am assuming Ukrainian girls don’t know as much about India as they know about US or Australia etc. Can this be a deal-breaker? Can I expect similar warmth of welcome?

2. I am 27 and never married or had kids. Most people I am seeing who go for these tours are in their 40s and 50s. Will that cause a problem for me? Do Ukrainian women like only older men?

3. Given the nature of this business, I am a little bound with suspicions. How do I know that a woman I meet, actually likes me or wants to have a happy and settled life with me and is just not after my money or green card? Are there some indicators?

4. The dating agencies arrange tours which are a few days in a city. Is that sufficient time to be able to start a serious relationship? Can you recommend some good agencies.

Thanks in advance,

Sam

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Krystyna answers:

Krystyna

Krystyna

Hello Sam,

I hope I can help you with my tips and advice. To your questions:

Question 1. Although I am settled in US, I am of Indian origin, something which makes me a rare species in this context. I am assuming Ukrainian girls don’t know as much about India as they know about US or Australia etc. Can this be a deal-breaker? Can I expect similar warmth of welcome?

As you know, 95% of the population of Ukraine is white. Based on historical events, there are still some prejudices against non-Caucasian men in Ukraine and Russia. As you know, the former Soviet Union was closed for foreigners for a long time. The country became more or less a closed society; therefore, Russian and Ukrainian girls could date only their men.

But despite the fact that Ukraine is an independent and open country since 20 years, the Ukrainians still consider non-Caucasian people exotic. This means that non-Caucasian men are somewhat extraordinary for Ukrainian ladies.

For most women from Ukraine (particularly if they come from a small town), dating an African, Indian or a Chinese man can mean an unusual experience. It is still rarely that Ukrainian women date and get married to non-European or non-American men who are not white. From my personal experience, I can tell you, the appearance plays a secondary role in the (intercultural) relationship.

If a man has a good personality and self-confidence and he knows how to treat a Ukrainian lady he won’t have any problems and difficulties to win the heart of a woman. Both parties (both men and women) need to show more tolerance and sensibility towards their cultures. Nowadays, we are extremely focused on the appearance and the race that we forget what things are really important in our life.

Don’t forget that Ukrainian women look for true love, security, respect, and care abroad (things what Ukrainian men are not able to give them). If you can give your woman from Ukraine all these things you are a winner already (no matter what skin color you have!!!). 🙂

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Question 2. I am 27 and never married or had kids. Most people I am seeing who go for these tours are in their 40s and 50s. Will that cause a problem for me? Do Ukrainian women like only older men?

I do not think that your age will cause a problem to find a woman for marriage. Ukrainian women do not like only older men, you have a good chance to find a woman in Ukraine for marriage and life.

Question 3. Given the nature of this business, I am a little bound with suspicions. How do I know that a woman I meet, actually likes me or wants to have a happy and settled life with me and is just not after my money or green card? Are there some indicators?

You should learn more about online dating scam and professional pro-daters in this industry so that you can find out if your woman has serious intentions or not. I recommend you the following ebooks on Russian/Ukrainian online dating scam:

  1. http://ukrainiandatingblog.com/krystynas-ukrainian-dating-books/ukrainian-dating-guide-avoiding-scams-krystyna/ (written by Krystyna, for free)
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  3. http://ukrainiandatingblog.com/2012/08/anti-scam-guide-elena-petrova-review/ (an ANTI-SCAM guide by Elena Petrova, costs $24,95)
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4. The dating agencies arrange tours which are a few days in a city. Is that sufficient time to be able to start a serious relationship? Can you recommend some good agencies.

A lot of Western men are wondering whether socials are a trustworthy method of finding a real woman from Ukraine and Russia. I guess yes it is possible. Some of my readers tell me that they have been on a social in Ukraine and had great time there. However, you have to remember that this process is not cheap and does not guarantee success.

In my opinion, the biggest advantage of these romance tours is that you have the chance to meet many ladies in a very short period of time versus going to a matchmaking agency in Ukraine and having to spend the time of setting personal one-on-one meetings with them.

As for me, you cannot start a serious relationship during a romantic tour in Ukraine. But you can meet someone, a special woman, with whom you can communicate and develop something serious. A serious relationship takes time and you should be patient.

I could recommend you one of the most famous and professional romance tour operators, namely: A Foreign Affair (LoveMe.com). Foreign Affairs offers the choice way for anyone to meet thousands of beautiful foreign women. This tour company has been introducing men with exotic ladies for nearly two decades. Clients are sure to find the wife of their dreams when they rely on the services of Foreign Affairs. Tours are conducted around the world. Men can choose any country they want to visit.

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Ukraine and Russia are some of the most popular destinations. These countries are known for their blonde beauties that are dying to meet a Western man. Advice and support are also offered by Foreign Affairs. This company does more than just help men meet the woman of their dreams. Guidance is offered to help men secure the necessary travel permits to enable their wives to move home with them. There is a host of red tape that is cut through with ease by the Foreign Affairs staff. Their employees know how to proceed and can help clients follow through with the entire process.


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Love,

Krystyna

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