A question about Ukrainian brides: why cannot they find a partner at home?
I have seen many sites showing beautiful women from your country and have always wondered, are these for real? Many dating sites show pictures of women that have been on there for many years showing the same women. I wonder can these women not find a date or mate or is this site just showing the best pics it has and what you end up with is a pool of losers.
I have to admit, the pics of women from Ukraine is very tempting but I would not want to go with just some pic, I would want to know a person first. Even a beautiful woman could be a bad choice if it turns out she was a hooker for the last ten years and has been tossed out of the business for a younger woman that has not been used up so much.
I also ask myself why do these women want to date someone from another country and not find a man there at home? It must be a big decision to place your pic online for the whole world to see like that, a move of desperation in some cases. I myself am more of a romantic and want to date and get to know a woman better before even the first kiss or hug.
I am sure there are millions of guys that look to find some woman online and use her as much as he can and discard her like a paper towel. Personally I don’t believe in using a woman like that, rather I know she is a person like anyone else and deserves respect and civility.
If a man wants to find a woman to be his soul mate, he better find one that he can first be best friends with and then love can follow giving a much deeper and enjoyable relationship. You sound like a person that is honest and with dignity, I wish you well in your work.
I can understand your thouhts and questions very well. Many Western men are wondering why Ukrainian women who look pretty and are family-oriented are looking for a man from abroad. I think it is mainly due to the type of men that are available in the Ukraine.
The men over in the Ukraine are rumored to be very violent and abusive. They are alcoholics, as we all know that no woman wants to spend her life in a relationship in which she is not fully appreciated and abused. As all us women are searching for fulfilling relationship that meets our needs. Therefore, Ukrainian women are taking part of online dating services to connect themselves to men all over the world.
In my opinion, Ukrainian women believe that men in the western world have the potential to be better husbands and fathers than when compared to men in their region. This is due to the stereotypes that most western world men have.
In addition, I think they understand that in the United States the sort of behavior that men in the Ukraine exhibit is frowned upon over here as domestic abuse is considered a crime. In addition, I know the media portrays western men as more caring and supportive of their women, which is true.
Surely, this is a big decision to place your pictures online for the whole world to see but women from Ukraine and Russia know that their appearance play an important role for Western men, thus they try presenting themselves in the best way. So this business works!
I myself am more of a romantic and want to date and get to know a woman better before even the first kiss or hug.
Believe me, a serious and honest woman from Ukraine is usually romantic, too. The women want to get known the man better before they are ready for the next step. As you know, Ukrainian / Russian culture differs from Western culture. Thus, the Ukrainian and Russian woman’s attitude towards sex, hugs and kisses differs from the Western woman’s attitude.
You should know that our culture is rather conservative (the women are shy and do not kiss at the first date usually). Many readers write me that Ukrainian and Russian ladies are very shy, cannot or do not want to hug or kiss Western men, and it is really difficult sometimes to find out whether the woman is into you or not.
Questions? Feel free to ask Krystyna, your Ukrainian dating expert 🙂 (s. here: Contact Krystyna)