Passion, sex, and kisses on the first date with a Ukrainian woman

Hi Krystyna,

Thank you for such cultural informative blog. I am currently a member of Anastasia and Amo Latina, both are own by the same company. I however, speak Spanish, Portuguese and am currently trying to learn Russian/Ukrainian. I have asked for personal email address in order to elevate our online relationship to next level, but was invited to come and visit instead. I also contacted the site manager, and asked them to stop translating my incoming/outgoing emails (their translations are terrible) hint the reason I am learning Russian/Ukrainian.

You speak of the first date, and falling in love. But what about passion? what about sex? Is it ok to kiss on the first date? Are Ukrainian women virgins until they get marry? If I decide to marry a Ukrainian woman, should I expect the wedding to be in Ukraine? I know I am paying for it, I also know the bread and pumking (rejection) treatment… I am 44 yrs old, and am currently chatting with 4 Ukraine women and 2 woman from South America their avaerage age 26-30. I hope you can give me an honest answer to my questions.

Thanks again,



Krystyna answers:



Hello Sal,

Thank you for your message.

To your questions:

You speak of the first date, and falling in love. But what about passion? what about sex? Is it ok to kiss on the first date?

I cannot tell you that women of Ukraine are ready to show you passion and make love on the first date. I think that only a few Ukraine ladies would agree to have sex on the first date.As you know, Ukrainian / Russian culture differs from Western culture.

Thus, the Ukrainian and Russian woman’s attitude towards sex, hugs and kisses differs from the Western woman’s attitude.You should know that our culture is rather conservative (the women are shy and do not kiss at the first date usually). Many readers write me that Ukrainian and Russian ladies are very shy, cannot or do not want to hug or kiss Western men, and it is really difficult sometimes to find out whether the woman is into you or not.

That makes the cross-cultural communication more complicated, in my opinion. Many women in Ukraine are waging a silent war for their own sexuality. In Literature, they are taught that they are to not even engage in a kiss without love being a priority. This makes the woman unable to explore her own sexual thoughts and attitudes to form a healthy sex life for her future husband. Even into dating and marriage, sex is a subject that is avoided at all costs. Those females who do engage in sexual intercourse before marriage try to keep it a secret for fear of rejection by society.

Are Ukrainian women virgins until they get marry?

The new generations of Ukrainian and Russian women become more confident about their sexuality and try to talk about sex and the woman’s role in Ukrainian and Russian cultures. Although the women are raised to protect their virginity, in today’s society, even the young girls in Russia are pushing the envelope more and more.

They want to be like the American women and enjoy the freedom to pursue their sexuality as so many women are doing today. But Russian and Ukrainian society becomes modern and virginity is not necessary for Russian and Ukrainian people. It is normal that Russian and Ukrainian women have a sexual relationship and modern couples in Russia and Ukraine live without getting married.

If I decide to marry a Ukrainian woman, should I expect the wedding to be in Ukraine?

No, not necessarily.

I hope I could help you! 🙂

krystyna dating blogger


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Krystyna is a Russian and Ukrainian dating blogger and Youtube video coach. On Ukrainian dating blog, you find more than 500 articles on dating Russian and Ukrainian ladies. Enjoy! No time to look for specific information or article? Check my “Krystyna’s lessons on successful dating Ukrainian ladies”. The guide offers you useful tips you must follow on your adventure to find your special Ukrainian woman for marriage. For more info, just click HERE

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3 Responses

  1. harry lewis says:

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