The 6 secret tips to long-term love with a Russian woman
Online dating is done? Looking now for a long-term relationship?
How you can make it last with a Russian or Ukrainian lady: The inside track to creating longevity, not just a short-term romance.
Making any kind of marriage work out takes lots of hard work and determination. In many ways you have to think of it like a job (is is actually, I say it from my own experience:)). In order to get what you want, you have to be willing to give a little too.
Now, some of you guys might not know what to expect from a Russian or Ukrainian girl. There’s no doubt that many of you are attracted to Russian and Ukrainian ladies. There is a difference though between being “into” a woman from Russia and Ukraine and making it work for a long-term partnership. Guys, here’s a short list of what you should expect from being with a Russian and Ukrainian bride. Some of these tips might surprise you.
Tip #1: Make Your Russian / Ukrainian Lady Feel Secure
Russian and Ukrainian brides are just like the other girls, they want to have love too. They want to fee secure about the guy they are with. Having her feel “insecure” and “Aware“, these are two different animals. Feeling insecure is having suspicions without any proof.
Being aware is having the proof right in front of you. The idea is to make her feel guys like she is the only one in your life. Sometime women feel insecure for no reason, or maybe they do have a reason. The point is to eliminate these fears from her mind. This is your job guys. Just do it properly! 🙂
Tip #2: Keep learning about her culture
Get to know her life and culture. There is so much to learn about the Russian & Ukrainian culture. The more you take the time to learn about her culture, the more you learn about her. This will go along way to showing her how much you love her.
Do it in a genuine way though. Don’t just learn about her life because you are looking to score with her in bed. Many guys have tried this before you, they have all failed miserably. Women see right through this.
Learn more about the Ukrainian & Russian culture:
- Just again: Questions on marriage agencies & dating culture in Ukraine
- Why is it important to learn about your Ukrainian wife’s culture?
- A guest post by Michael Mordinson: Good manners in Ukraine
- Ukraine food traditions
Tip #3: Nobody is perfect
She is not going to be perfect, guys (yes, surprise, surprise!!!). You can’t expect her to be perfect. It doesn’t matter what the history books say about how perfect Russian & Ukrainian women are. It’s simply not true in the bigger picture.
Here’s what you need to try and remember guys. Learn to forgive the smaller things as they happen. They will happen. Your girl is going to make mistakes, as you will. If she can expect you for not being perfect, then you can take the time to except her.
If you learn to forgive early on, it’s will make it easier for some of the bigger things that enter the picture. It’s not to say that she will make big mistakes. If she does, you will be in good practice for forgiveness when it does happen.
This will go along way with her. You have to learn how to pick your battles. Now some women offer more frustration with this than others. There are going to be times when she is really going to test your patience and tolerance. The idea is to forgive though, no matter what. Wouldn’t you want the same?
Tip #4: Communication is key
You can’t expect your other half to be a mind-reader, guys. It’s up to you to communicate your feelings. Wouldn’t you want her to do the same? Just tell her how to feel. Do it in a respectful way though.
Communication of any kind is always key. There are going to be times when she’s going to be selfish and act in ways that are not great. If you feel hurt by this, talk to her. Maybe she will listen and hear what you are saying.
The same thing works with you too. If you expect her to listen and hear you, you need to do the same. It works both ways. You should never get to a point where the two of you are growing in different directions.
Learn how to communicate effectively with Russian & Ukrainian women:
- The Language Barrier And Intimacy in a Ukrainian-Western relationship
- Three tips how to overcome language barriers in a Ukrainian-Western relationship
- Language barriers to effective communication with Ukrainian women
- 5 Tips for a better communication with a Ukrainian woman
Tip #5: Invest in the relationship with your Russian woman’s family
Her family is going to be in your life, for better or worse. You have to find ways to smooth things over. Remember certain key events in their lives. This is one way to stay on their good side.
You should also try to befriend a family member who could be your “sympathizer“. You are going to need him or her at certain points. It’s best to keep things good with the family, even those you don’t necessarily like that much.
Learn more about Russian and Ukrainian family:
- Ukrainian Family Values – Interesting Facts & Issues
- My Ukrainian wife, her family and I
- Motherhood in Life of Ukrainian Women
- The role of mothers in Russian and Ukrainian dating
Tip #6: Be open and flexible
Dating a Russian & Ukrainian lady is not like all the other girls. You do have to keep an open mind. Be open to new and challenging things. This might be tough for some of you. Some guys just don’t like change.
You will have to get over this, if you intend on making a life with her. Learn not to expect so much. Sometimes it’s best to just go with it guys. Who knows? You might just end up changing your life forever, but in a good way!
Not enough? Learn more about the myths & truth about Russian & Ukrainian women in my video tutorial:Questions? Feel free to ask Krystyna, your Ukrainian dating expert 🙂 (s. here: Contact Krystyna)
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