Dear friends,
Many Western men looking for a Ukrainian wife online complain that all Ukrainian women are scammers and just want to leave their poor Ukraine. Or better to say: they all want to cheat you for money. Of course, I’m trying to prove that in Ukraine there are also honest women who dream only to find their happiness abroad. I found out that there are 12 types of Ukrainian and Russian women you should not date. I confess that I did not write this article – I found it on a Russian women forum. But this article is so cool – you have to read it absolutely, dear readers!
12 types of Ukrainian and Russian women you should not date
Type 1- Miss Feminist
This woman postulates that all the ills of society are orchestrated by men and the best thing a man can do to improve himself is cut off his testicles and grow a pair of ovaries. She believes that women are angelic creatures who would make the world a utopia if only the male “patriarchy” would allow them to. Any woman who promotes these absurdities lives in a fantasy world and will have no problem at all treating a man in a way that she would never herself abide by. You can easily identify her by her incessant mantra, “All men think with their penises.” Avoid her at all costs.
Type 2- Miss Take
She’s out for your money — pure and simple. Miss Take is the ultimate in high maintenance. She expects a man to finance her entire life just because she is biologically female. To her, a man should pay for drinks, dinners, trips, flowers, and jewelry, while she feels absolutely no guilt or compulsion to reciprocate. She is nothing but a whitewashed prostitute. Miss Take thinks her vagina is plated with gold and is worth a million dollars. She is greed personified. Since she has no concept of someone else’s feelings, her only interest is in getting what she wants. And don’t be fooled — some apparently very “nice” girls are the greediest of them all.
Type 3- Miss Romance
This type of woman lives in a fantasy world of Lifetime Channel movies and romance novels. Every night she goes home alone to spend hours flipping through her bride magazines, imagining that, at any moment, Prince Charming will ride up on his white horse, sweep her off her feet, and offer her a problem-free existence for the rest of her life. The Miss Romances of the world have been coddled by parents and family, told they are “princesses,” and have absolutely no idea that real life consists of paying bills and cleaning toilets. Miss Romance will expect to be taken care of, will be a dud in bed, and will, almost overnight, turn into a shrieking nag. Run!!!
Type 4- Miss Elusive
This woman is closely allied to Miss Romance, but with a dark side. She is usually one of the “walking wounded” — someone who has been hurt in past relationships and so subconsciously avoids or sabotages new relationships in the present. Your association with her will be one of utter frustration, as first she shows great interest in you, but very quickly runs away — then repeats this cycle over and over again. Miss Elusive is the queen of mixed messages. She will flirt with you and date you, but you’ll never get past “friend” status. What you will get is a million excuses for her unavailability, all calculated to deceive herself that she just doesn’t have time for a relationship. Save yourself some heartache — don’t get involved with her.
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Type 5- Miss Angry
Like Miss Feminists, Miss Angrys really don’t like men. They scorn the male gender and can rattle off all the wrongs and misdeeds of every man they’ve ever encountered. To Miss Angry, there’s no such thing as a nice guy — they’re all “jerks,” “creeps” and “pigs.” Many of them have lots of simmering anger at men, which can explode at any moment like an erupting volcano. Unless you’re into lots of drama and screaming, stay away.
Type 6- Miss Insecure
This woman seems great at the start because she’s very nice, accommodating and treats men well. But her inner insecurities don’t take long to surface. Pretty soon she’s calling you 10 times a day, asking to see “where the relationship is going,” or because she “just wants to hear your voice.” She needs constant reassurance that she’s attractive, and worries incessantly about her makeup, hair and the alignment of her clothes. She’s clingy, needy and compulsively agonizes that you’re going to leave her at any moment for “someone better.” This kind of thing can get really creepy really fast.
Type 7- Miss Bitch
Miss Bitches are the sulkers, pouters and ball-busters of the female world. They are very unpleasant people who treat their fellow humans poorly, care only about themselves, and aren’t concerned at all if they hurt you or anybody else. Most Miss Bitches qualify as Miss Takes, too. Miss Bitches are usually good-looking and well dressed, and you can easily identify them by the scowls on their faces as they imperiously strut through the world.
Type 8- Miss Me
A close relative of Miss Bitch, Miss Me is entirely focused on herself. Miss Me needs to be the constant center of attention no matter what she does or where she goes. She is a selfish, self-indulgent, self-serving narcissist who was raised as “daddy’s little girl,” and expects the same from you. Unless you enjoy the company of spoiled brats, stay far, far away.
Type 9- Miss Desperate
Whether it’s her baby clock ticking or she’s the last of her girlfriends to trap a man, Miss Desperate wants to get married — now. She doesn’t care who the guy is or what he does — as long as he’s got a penis she can drag him to the altar. Watch out for this one!
Type 10- Miss Turncoat
She’s a conniving little piece of work who’s an expert at conning men. Miss Turncoat will tell you exactly what you want to hear until you’re hooked deep into the relationship (or married)… and then the truth comes out. Overnight, your sweet little girl turns into a demanding, greedy, mercenary harpy who will browbeat you into submission if she doesn’t get her way.
Type 11- Miss Tease
Usually, you can spot Miss Teases a mile away because she flirts with anything in pants and flaunt her sexuality at every opportunity. Sometimes she sponges off older men; sometimes she’s a ball-buster who enjoys getting men sexually excited and then walking away; and sometimes she just basks in her sexual power by attracting men like bees to honey. No matter how she operates, you can’t trust her because she craves male attention and if somebody better comes along, she’ll dump you in a heartbeat.
Type 12- Miss Controlling
She is a subtly nasty one who will wind up directing every phase of your life. She will tell you what to wear, where to go, who to talk to, what friends you can have, what you can eat — everything. And if you try to stand up for yourself, she will cut off sex, cry, scream, pout, or use any other deceptive female tactic until you give in and succumb to her demands.
Meet Krystyna, an esteemed international dating expert, blogger, and the founder of Ukrainian Dating Blog. With over 1000 articles published in English and German, she specializes in cross-cultural relationships, prevalent dating topics, and tackling romance scams.
Hmmmm….This was clearly written by a man. It is not unique to Ukrainian women, but does describe some of the fairer sex. Unfortunately, I expect that a list of 12 worst male types would be equally accurate, and equally misleading.
In my opinion, there is too much of this going around. Women are marvelous creatures, and we do ourselves a disservice by neglecting all the great things about them, and focusing just on the negative.
I think that if you are looking for a Ukrainian wife, or any wife, it is worth asking the question, “Do I like women?”
If the answer is no, then you are going to be unhappy no matter what you find. Worse, you will make someone else unhappy too.
I would like to see a list of 12 archetype Ukrainian women that are positive…to balance this list out. Krystyna? That is your next challenge.
🙂
Rick
Hello Rick,
I have known Krystyna for about 1-1/2 years now. She is honest and she is telling the truth about what she knows. She is not tainted and “no” she is not a man.
She is kind and gentle, and loves life and she loves what we all love, Romance. I appreciate her candid remarks about these women. I have a Russian wife who grew up in the Ukraine. I have known many women from this part of the world and she speaks from her heart
Do not judge her if you do not know her. We (her and I ) have had some differences since I have known her, but all in all she is a beautiful person who is really trying to help men from all over the world.
God Bless you Krystyna, I wish you the best in your new endeavors and most of all with your life. I believe God watches out for all of us, and most of all, the people who try to help others. You should be commended for your efforts my dear.
Best Wishes,
James
Hello James,
thank you very much for your kind words.
As Rick said, I did not write this article. The article seemed to be very interesting and funny, so I decided to present it to my readers. Many readers write to me that my articles are sometimes really utopian, naive and too optimistic. I do not deny it! 🙂 The reason of my blogging is to show that Ukrainian women are normal women with interesting culture and mentality. We are not angels! But we are not demons, as well!
I believe 100% in the International dating success. And I am the best example of that! James, you are also a good example of that, namely: you found your match in Ukraine, married and are happy, though cross-cultural relationship is not easy and there are always many difficulties.
Krystyna
Hello Krystyna,
Yes, I am a very good example of a cross cultural relationship. As you stated, it is rewarding, with challenges.
It is not for the faint of heart. Many of your readers who comment believe they are professional relationship experts. Or believe one example of their own experience is an example of all women abroad.
Each woman is different and unique. As you are different from all others who have come before you. Stay as you are and do not change your direction. Now it is my turn to advise you, I was married for over 30 years the first time. I have daughters your age, my only advice I can give anyone on relationships is to keep an open mind. Know that your heart tells every story. Good or bad, experience is the key to understanding others.
I believe in love and understanding. I believe in your message, and I believe in you.
I hope all of us will continue to be healthy and happy in our current relationships.
Here is my take on life:
“Without truth there is no love, without love there is no life”.
Thank you for allowing me to comment on your blog.
Valya says hello. She told me to tell you she is very happy.
She wishes you the very best…I hope you received our photos.
My very best to you and yours,
I am going to Europe soon, I look forward to another trip abroad.
Love,
James
My letter was no judgement against Krystyna (who also said that she did not write that last article). Like others, I have read all of Krystyna’s posts as they go up. I think, sometimes, that her views have been a little naive, but I enjoy her positive perspective on Ukrainian women, and the hopeful sincerity in which it is given.
Unfortunately, everyone is so worried about ‘scams’ that we begin to look for bad things in good (or normal) situations. The internet is replete with men stressing out about dating scams. I think Krystyna has discussed this reasonably, but it would be a shame to lose her reminders of the virtues of Ukrainian women…ultimately the reason we are all tracking this blog.
So to balance out the “12 bad types of women” I’d like to see the “12 Amazing types of Ukrainian women”, because in my experience, there are some pretty precious characteristics.
🙂
Rick
Hey Rick,
thank you for your comment and nice words.
Thank you very much for reading my blog! 🙂
I really appreciate it. It motivates me to work on my Ukrainian dating blog on.
I like your suggestion to write about “12 types of Ukrainian women you SHOULD DATE”.
I hope next week my post will be ready!
Question to you all, my readers: do you wish to read only the articles written by myself? Oder do you like to read articles written by other authors? Sometimes, I am not sure if it is a good idea to post the articles written by the others. I am looking forward to hear from you! 🙂
Krystyna
So how is this one coming? I noticed the 10 sexiest women…but I’m still looking forward to reading the 12 types you should date! 😉
Have a great day!
Rick
Patience!!!
I need time to write the article.
It comes next week! promised!
Krystyna
Maybe about 10% to 20% from other sources
Thank you, Eric, for your feedback!
It’s really important to know!
Krystyna
The rules of avoidance of these 12 types of women are spot on.
Definitely not exclusive to Ukrainian either. They are everywhere, literally. Have found them in my home country of USA in large percentage of the population and also the other 43 countries of my travels.
What I do know, having met the love of my life in a small town, 7 hours from Odessa, is that good values and loyalty do exist. I was married for 20 years and divorced. Following that I dated internationally in my travels. Became extremely careful for signs you can spot early on in any one of these personality types noted in the blog.
Then came upon the woman who is everything to me…
Beautiful on the outside beyond belief? yes of course, she is from Ukraine and no she is not 20 years younger than me…
Beautiful on the inside?… Gentlemen, this woman outshines any woman I have ever met in the quality of her heart and I saw that a LOT in small towns across Eastern Europe (Russia, Ukraine, Moldova, Romania, Belarus) in my travels.
In the end, the quality of one’s heart and soul is all that matters and you as a man should be of a similar heart and you will find your life partner. So take the good advice in the blog no matter where you are and doesn’t matter is Krystyna actually wrote it or not. It is funny but at the same time the best humor is always grounded in reality. These personality types listed are poison to anyone of the opposite gender that comes within kilometers of them.
This sounds like a lot of women in America. I guess its fair to say that not all women are angels no matter where they come from.
I’ve recently dated a Ukrainian lady. To cut a very long story short….she portrayed herself as Miss little angel when we first met. Then later down the track, her true colours came out. I saw Miss Take, Miss Controlling, Miss Turncoat and Miss Angry, all in one person in a matter of a short time! I’ll leave it to your imagination of what happened in the end lol.