SOS! My Ukrainian Girl Is On Another Dating Profile…
I have heard so many men complain that the Ukrainian girls that they thought they were dating exclusively, through an online site, are actually dating other men on other sites. These men might have used a search engine like Google to find their girl’s other profile; they might have just stumbled upon it because they too are dating multiple women on multiple sites. However it happened, these men are saddened and sometimes angered to find out that they are not the only one who is dating this girl.
The thing that you have to understand is that Ukrainian girls are looking for husbands. As a woman from the Ukraine myself, I remember this stage of my life. They are not just interested in Ukraine online dating just for the sake of a good time. They feel a compulsion to get married. In my opinion, this is why they spend so much time on different Ukraine online dating sites. They do not want to spend all of their time talking to one man, only to find out later that he is not interested in marrying them. They do not feel like they have enough time to waste it like this.
The solution, in my experience, is just that the man needs to talk to the woman. He needs to try to keep from getting angry that he has found her on another site. He needs to stop and think about things from her perspective so that he can understand why she says and does these things. Then he needs to have a talk with her about the future. Both people need to be very clear about what they are looking to get out of the relationship, whether this means casual fun or marriage. This understanding can lead to a long, happy relationship. 🙂
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