Guys, don’t be a jellyfish in sea!

Jellyfish (also known as jellies or sea jellies or Medusozoa) are free-swimming members of the phylum Cnidaria. Jellyfish do not have specialized digestive, central nervous, respiratory, or circulatory systems. They do not need a respiratory system since their skin is thin enough that the body is oxygenated by diffusion. They have limited control over movement; some species actively swim most of the time, while others are passive much of the time.… (Wikipedia)

Do not be a jellyfish


Dear Gentlemen,

Don’t be a jellyfish! You’ve heard of these creatures: they float on the waves, follow no particular direction and show no initiative. Many men write to me, “I am a handsome man, well-educated with a good job. I have a sense of humor , I’m tender and nice, but still I cannot find a woman for life. What’s the problem with me?” Having read such words, a woman will think that this man is the perfect match for her. But for some unknown reasons, the man is alone…

Many men hope and dream that after registering on a Ukrainian dating website, they will find a wife in 5 minutes. False! The (Ukrainian) online dating means three things:

1. Patience

2. Creativity

3. Initiative

Why patience? You know that feeling: 2 days have passed, a week has passed… And you haven’t still found the right woman for yourself. What are you going to do? You delete your online dating profile and write me that you just have bad luck with the Ukrainian/Russian online dating. No hurry! Sometimes, you just need a lot longer to find the right Ukrainian woman for marriage. It’s just like in real life: some guys find their luck with 30, but some – only with 50…

Why be creative? I’ve also noticed the following thing on online dating sites: many men write their first message to a woman from Ukraine or Russia in this manner: “Hello, how are you?” And they are confused if they get the answer from the woman like “Fine, thank you.” You think that the woman shows no real interest to develop the communication with you, don’t you?

No, you think wrong, guys! The point is that the first message which sounds like “hello, how are you” is impersonal, not creative, not interesting or inviting. Be creative, say something nice about her appearance or ask the woman about something interesting (how her mood today is, how her day at the office today was, what she dreamed last night, etc.)

Why show initiative?The answer is quite simple: us, women from Ukraine, are traditionally oriented which means the man is the boss in the relationship and family. Ukrainian women love it when men make decisions. Ukrainian women love to be conquered by you, guys. Ask a woman a lot of questions to get to know her better. Tell her more about yourself, namely: about your future plans, your expectations, your family values ​…

Us, Ukrainian women, want to meet the real man, not a jellyfish!

Questions? Ask Krystyna 🙂 (s. here: Contact Krystyna)



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