Three other tips to find out if your Ukrainian woman is real
I wrote an article already how to verify the true identity of a Ukrainian bride on a dating site (to read the article please click here) as well as how to identify and avoid Ukrainian pro-paters (to read the article please click here). And I created a Ukrainian dating guide on online scam (click here). But almost every week, I get mails from my readers who are wondering how to find out if the woman is real or not. This is understandable because you should always be cautious while using International online dating and matchmaking services.
There are a few distinct signs and tips that you should always look for when communicating with someone you think you may want to start a real relationship with. In my opinion, there are many ways to tell if your Ukrainian or Russian woman for marriage is real or if she is a scam.
You can never be too careful as this is the “digital age” (note: remember that being overcautious may lead your Ukrainian dating adventure to the disaster – to read more click here). Once you’ve followed these few tips, you will know if the feelings are true or if just a scammer out for some quick cash.
Tip #1: Call me, call!
The first tip you should always look for when calling your Ukrainian or Russian woman for the first time, is listen to the sound of your voice. In my opinion, her voice should sound excited, and you may be able to hear a little nervousness as well (I am sure that you are also very nervous if you call a woman from Ukraine for the first time). If she sounds an excited and slightly nervous, then that is a great indicator that she’s real and that’s she’s very interested in you as well.
She should sound nervous because she may know exactly how to respond as she’s just so excited to finally hear your speaking voice for the first time. And the first time you call someone it can be a little nerve-racking. But if you call and she sounds monotone and very nonchalant, that could be a red flag for you to note. Some people don’t know that their feelings can simply be expressed in their voice.
Tip #2: Use Skype and study the woman’s body language
The second thing you should take note of is how she acts when you Skype call her. By physically seeing her, you will be able to pick up on your emotions and even actions as well. If you call and she’s very calm and seemingly not connected then that should definitely be a red flag.
The first time you video chat with someone they should be a little nervous, and maybe even overwhelmed with excitement the first few times you all decide to video chat. I believe that it should be a pleasant and overall happy experience if the Ukraine woman is sincerely interested in your personality.
Tip #3: Use interpreters
The final tip is when you can you should use interpreters, they will make this overall situation go a lot smoother. This will help remove any language barriers that may arise. And the interpreters will also be able to find out if the Ukrainian or Russian woman is genuine and real with what she is speaking. You can use the interpreters when you are on the phone with your Ukrainian or Russian woman and even when you go visit her as well. It will greatly help you out in the long run and before you become too emotionally invest as well.
Important: I recommend you to find a neutral interpreter (e.g. translation office in your city) because the International dating agency’s interpreter would not help you to find out if the woman is real or not. They do not want to lose a customer who pays for their services!!!
I am sure, once you have followed those few simple tips, you will then know if your Ukrainian or Russian woman is real or just a scammer. This will greatly help you out in the long run as well. Another tip that you should follow is always be careful and cautious. But other than that, have fun and fall in love with a Ukrainian lady today. 🙂
Questions? Feel free to ask Krystyna, your Ukrainian dating expert 🙂 (s. here: Contact Krystyna)