The Ukrainian and Russian “old-fashioned” dating Do’s & Don’ts (Part 2)

Dear friends,

in Part 1 we talked about the 9 mistakes most Western men make when looking for a Ukrainian or Russian bride online. You can read the first part here:

But now you may be wondering, okay, what next? Here are four “old fashioned” tips that can be applied successfully in Russian and Ukrainian online dating today.

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Tip #1: Be your true self

This goes back to being genuine. Present yourself as the same person both online and offline. This doesn’t happen often, and women are often pleasantly surprised to meet a man who portrays himself honestly. This builds trust, which is a necessary foundation for any relationship. So communicate openly about who you are. This will ensure your dates go well and you will feel much more connected with both her and yourself.

Tip #2: Be a gentleman

Not so long ago most men did this automatically. That’s not true today. Women miss that. Men who act as gentlemen and are respectful and respectable, have a huge advantage in the dating world. So be well mannered and courteous in your behaviors and your words. Women will love you for it.

Tip #3: Be considerate and caring

This goes along with being a gentleman as well. Don’t try to be the “bad guy” and don’t think being a jerk attracts women. It doesn’t. Be thoughtful of the Ukrainian and Russian woman’s feelings, especially when scheduling your interactions and asking her out. If you aren’t thoughtful of her feelings, negativity energy will build up surrounding these situations that will negatively impact your dating life.

Tip #4: Be patient

Lastly, it’s critical that you always remain patient. Don’t ever sacrifice short-term desires for long-term happiness. Going in too quickly will sabotage your changes to turn dating into a meaningful connection with a woman, and that’s what all men really want.

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Remember: Ukrainian and Russian dating is not like sugar! Looking for a Ukrainian or Russian woman, dating her and having a relationship with her can be really really really hard! Life can be tough and you must show a lot of patience before you find a wonderful wife from Ukraine.

Julie Spira, a famed online dating expert, points out in her “The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online”, “Patience is a virtue and the best things in life are worth waiting for.

The takeaway is this: be real, be honest, and be a genuinely great guy. Show a Ukrainian and Russian women who you really are and avoid the above mistakes. When you’re true to yourself and you care about her feelings, everything will work itself out in the end.

Happy online dating! 🙂




Questions? Feel free to ask Krystyna, your Ukrainian dating expert 🙂 (s. here: Contact Krystyna)



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