Five Reasons Why You Should End Your Relationship With A Russian Woman
Almost all of us at some point have had a horrible dating experience. Being honest with you, I have more than two or three bad dating experiences. It is just a part of your life journey.
Then there are those who have stayed in a long-term relationship simply out of fear. If you’re caught up in a whirlwind of emotions, it may be hard for you to decide if it’s time to get out.
There’s no right or wrong answer when it comes to how you feel in your relationship with a Russian or Ukrainian lady. However, there are some guidelines that might ultimately help you make a decision.
Here are five obvious signs that your Russian-Western relationship is on the brink of being over:
Reason #1. You Are Beginning To Lose Trust In Your Russian Wife
Your relationship simply can’t survive without trust. I would say that any relationship has no future, including professional relationship, business partnership or friendship. Trust is a base of any relationship building. But here we are talking about the relationship between a Western man and a Russian / Ukrainian woman which is very challenging.
Without stability and comfort you most likely will have no future. Not being able to trust your Russian woman’s word is a strong sign you probably don’t trust anything she does or says. Having to constantly check up on her or ask her to prove where she was, can make anyone miserable in a relationship.
Here I would like to share my experience about one Ukrainian-German couple. Obviously, she was a pretty lady and made an indelible impression on all the neighbors when she moved to a small town where her German husband had his residence. So he became jealous very quickly and has made their life together hell. He asked his sister to watch his wife when he was at work. At some point the Ukrainian woman was fed up with his jealousy and distrust. She ended their relationship only after two years of marriage.
You shouldn’t have to check your wife’s social media multiple times a day, or have access to all of her passwords. Accusing your partner of things before knowing the truth is a surefire sign you have no trust in her. Your relationship will not grow or mature if you cannot have an adult conversation with your woman from Russia or Ukraine before making accusations.
Reason #2. You Have Different Core Values
Research has shown that the more similar your values are, the more likely you are to get along. Partners who have separate values are more likely to fight a lot and disrespect each other.
Asking someone to change her values is never a good idea. Why would anyone want to change what they value? If you have to ask your Russian wife to change her beliefs than you are basically asking her to change who she is. This can never work in a relationship that is supposed to be 50/50.
I am always wondering if you are not on the same page with Russian / Ukrainian core values, why you are looking for a Russian / Ukrainian woman. If you start looking for a foreign woman, you have to know that intercultural dating can present several challenges in a relationship (e.g. how you adjust to one another and how you accept the culture of your foreign partner) and in many ways culture can present unexpected differences in core values.
If you both can agree to disagree then your relationship may have a glimmer of hope. Sex plays a big role in any relationship. If your partner wants it more often than you do, that could pose a big problem. If you value intellectual conversations and your spouse does not, how are you supposed to communicate? There are plenty of intercultural samples that show challenges of this kind of relationship.
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Reason #3. It’s Impossible For You To Visualize A Future With Her
Everyone’s idea for their future isn’t always the same. Many people think that because they are getting older, they should get married and have children. It’s a fallacy for a Russian woman to believe that if you loved her enough you will conform to her vision of what the future should be.
They sometimes expect that you would and should do anything for love even if it’s something you don’t believe in. If your Russian woman wants kids and you do not, your relationship probably won’t make it much longer. If you choose not to bend to her wishes, she will feel slighted and feel less than.
Reason #4. Your Relationship Has Suddenly Lacked Intimacy
Every relationship needs intimacy to survive. That means both physical and emotional intimacy. Without either, your relationship is guaranteed to die out slowly. Physical intimacy cannot be created without emotional intimacy. If you have no desire to provide emotional intimacy towards your Russian woman, you should quickly end the relationship.
Without both forms of intimacy, your relationship has nothing to hold onto when times get tough. It’s a problem if you find yourself not wanting to hold hands, cuddle, kiss or even hug. These factors are important as they let her know you are there for her and that she matters.
When you have no desire to do any of these things, you’re essentially showing her you don’t care. If you don’t care, then why are you in the relationship to begin with?
Reason #5. You No Longer Have Interest In Your Partner
This is probably the number reason why you should end your relationship before it gets worse. If you have come to the conclusion you are losing interest in your Russian or Ukrainian woman, you need to take the time to decide where you want the relationship to go.
You will notice you are losing interest if you find yourself not wanting to make time for her. If you find yourself not looking forward to seeing her or spend time with her, you’re probably losing interest. If your wife from Russia or Ukraine has caught on to this, she might start badgering you that will only create more distance between the two of you.
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There is nothing you should be ashamed of about coming to the realization that your connection has fizzled out. The importance is to nip it in the bud as quickly as possible so it doesn’t get worse. Break-ups are learning lessons that will help you handle future relationships a whole lot better.
I hope this article will be useful for you. If you have any similar experience, it would be great if you could share your story on the Ukrainian Dating Blog.
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