You want to know if she’s the woman for you? You’re the only one that knows, but there are signs and signals that make it obvious she’s your soulmate from Ukraine.
Could this just be a quick, fun, fling or is it the start of something that’s going to last and be special? I still strongly believe that the entire relationship has been formed and built up online, also a relationship with a foreign woman.
You’ve been having fantasies because your only communication options are email communication, online chat via Skype and phone services. You hope that in the end all of this will turn out to be real and someone isn’t trying to trick you into a relationship with someone that doesn’t exist or use you for entertainment and financial purposes.
You’re wondering how you’ll know if a Ukrainian woman online really likes you or is simply faking it. There are ten signals and signs that love is developing from the online dating world.
Sign #1: No Vanishing Without Explanation or Goodbye
There isn’t a disappearing act, where they vanish in the middle of talking to you only to reappear weeks later and act like it they’ve been there the entire time. It is a good sign when you talk to a Ukrainian woman who is consistent and frequent in her communications with you.
The more she talks to you the less likely she is to be talking to others, there isn’t time to be communicating with several others throughout the day. I am talking here about months of your communication. It is common that a woman and also a Western man start communicating with more than one person. It is recommended to keep your options open and learn more about your potential dates. You can chat with a few different women to see whose personality best suits your own. The women do the same.
But here if the woman keeps writing, calling and communicating with you it also signals they are ready for committing and making love a priority. They don’t forget about you because they have guests from out of town or work priorities to take care of, they make time.
Sign #2: Honest and Truthful
There is no end to the honesty. When you keep secrets from someone it means they aren’t the one. People actually want to share with the one they love, no matter what it is or how personal. Simple honesty makes your love stronger, you tell them what you do and who you do it with. You keep them knowledgeable about your life.
Remember that honesty is a two-way street. You cannot expect honesty from your woman if you hide truth about your previous marriage, having children, debts and financial difficulties. At some point, your woman will find out and these secrets might cause big problems. I know a German-Ukrainian couple. He is like a chest with fairy tales.
They are married for 5 years and a new fairy tale comes out from the chest from time to time. He has a daughter from the previous marriage, never paid aliments, so now he needs to pay all the alimony from the previous years. Additionally, all his credit cards are in a big minus. You can imagine that the marriage is a far away from being harmonious.
Sign #3: She Cares for You
This Ukrainian woman actually asks you about your day, your life and feelings. She really cares about you and not just talking about herself. It’s like she can sense what you need without you ever saying a word. While words are needed for communicating she could have a stronger sense provided she’s your true soulmate.
Sign #4: Little Things
Emails are sent for small things, things that you don’t feel you need or want to share with others. Your Ukrainian woman is the first one that comes to mind. You get excited when she emails you about the small stuff.
Sometimes my husband and I quarrel over trifles (he did not put the cup in the right way or bought the wrong cheese). But then we understand all these things are not really important. Of course, our life is built on all these things, but put your attention to something really important like spending time with someone you love or you are both healthy.
Sign #5: Shared Values
Both of you view family and relationships in the same way. A lot of Russian and Ukrainian women expect to be treated like princesses can pampered, that’s fine everyone has a different view of what they want in someone they are in a relationship with. Do you want to be with your best friend? Do you want to keep somethings for you and your friends or do you want to share every detail with your other half? Have talks about what you want in a partner, and if you agree you’re a good match.
My husband and I have been together for 7 years. We are very different in terms of mentality, culture and nationality. But we are on the same page in terms of lifestyle, family values, future plans and spending money. We are so similar in this way. Therefore, our marriage is so strong.
Sign #6: They Brighten Your Day
You’ll be spending all your time waiting for the indicator that your Ukrainian woman is online too. It will make your day better just talking to her no matter what time of day it is, or how early you need to be up.
Sign #7: Regular Online Dates
The dates you make online feel like in person dates. You have candlelight dinners at your keyboard and skype dates that make you realize you’re having real feelings for this person. You talk over your meal, and tell each other tiny things to make them smile, it’s relaxed and not forced.
Sign #8: She Voluntarily Stops Seeing Others
This sign is connected to the first signal. The woman is very serious about your communication, she does not disappear and makes her decision to focus only on you.
She stops participating in other online dating relationships without you having to ask her. She doesn’t want anyone else and has enough respect for you to stop giving others the opportunity to try to date her. It is shady to stay on dating sites once you are exclusive. It is not a mystery why people continue to use dating sites after you become exclusive.
Sign #9: Proud to Be With You
This woman from Ukraine or Russia will not hide you from anyone in her life. While you can still keep things private between you she will be proud of you and want to introduce you. Her friends and family will all know about you, and she will be excited for them to meet you.
If she is only single when she’s with you that is a sign something is wrong and you need to leave this one alone. There is a chance that she is just playing with your heart.
This signal is a very strong indicator for your potential lasting love, as for me. Family is very important to us, Ukrainian women. And if the woman is willing to introduce you to her family this means she is fairly serious about you. Next
Sign #10: Transparency and Truthfulness
There is only one percent of the time that she will not want to share everything in her life with you. The two of you might still tell each other tiny white lies or omit a few things. There’s a difference between intentionally lying and forgetting something. You don’t need explanations or excuses, simply move on. Liars do not change. Never ever!
These are ten ways that you can tell if the Ukrainian or Russian woman that you are considering entering into an online dating relationship is serious about you. She also allows you to know if it is real once you have decided that the two of you will be exclusive, the important thing is that everyone is different with different values and ideals.
About the blogger: Krystyna is an International dating blogger, coach and iDate speaker. She is on mission to help Western men to understand foreign women better and how to succeed on the International dating websites.
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