One of life’s driving instincts is the desire to find happiness in love. Very few people wish for a lonely life. But, what options do you have when you scour the local dating scene and come up empty-handed?
Well, what if I told you about an option you haven’t considered before and the rewards proved to be worth the risk? I’m talking about utilizing online mail order bride services.
And why not? Using this service eliminates many of the problems we have with commonly unfruitful dating methods. And honestly, most foreign women put American women to shame in the sensuality and hot departments. I’m talking about finding both a foreign wife and a lasting relationship with tremendous rewards and benefits. It’s outside the box dating that really works.
World statistics about mail order brides
World statistics show mail order bride services produce an estimated 10,000 marriages annually, 4,000 involving American men. This doesn’t include dating time. Relationships move at the pace those in it set.
That being said, did you know 1 out of every 6 relationships in the U.S. is actually an international one? And moreover, statistics show over 80% of international relationships continuing into marriage do so successfully. Mail order bride marriages have an extremely low rate of divorce, some 20% versus 40% domestically.
Those are good numbers. Even better numbers show only 10% of the women posting mail order bride ads have thus far been successful. Which means, there’s a large ratio still looking and American men have the high ground. Simply put, we look like cake.
Ukrainian brides lead the charge
The online dating forerunners are women of Eastern European descent. Specifically Russian brides and Ukrainian mail order brides. Reports show an estimated 62,000 women from the Ukraine have posted dating site profiles with about 32,000 Russian women following behind. And these women are gorgeous.
However, there are wonderfully exotic Asian (Thai mail order brides, Japanese mail order brides, etc.) and Latin women (Brazilian brides, Mexican brides or Venezuelan brides) available for online dating all over the world. Any taste can be found.
What you need to know about internet brides
What you’d never know experiencing the uneven American dating arena is American women are the least globally desired. The rewards at home are few for American men. But, foreign women want to date American men.
Many extremely beautiful and competent women are online internationally. This is by choice and the numbers support it.
Though it is true, socio-economic hardships do motivate these women to seek a better life through online dating, the women themselves claim to just prefer American men as husbands. Perceptively, we just treat them better.
The American man's perception
When many Ukrainian women abroad were asked why they wanted to marry American men, they replied they wanted to be treated the way they deserve. They can’t find it at home. What makes this relevant is this is exactly what American men say. The feeling is American women are over-spoiled and over-grasping. They’re never content.
Facts about mail order agencies
If anything were to go wrong with initiating an online romance internationally, it begins with poor selections of mail order bride agencies. Great care should be taken when picking one. A good agency should offer a platform for you to talk to women or direct you to one.
When picking a site there are a few things you should look for:
Trustworthy sites offer protective anti-scam policies. And this why you want a for-profit site. Agencies serve as an international bridge for safe communication and offer translation services. Thus, money goes to the site, not the women.
After picking a site, set up a profile. Search the sites database for desirable women. Open a line of communication, just as you would in your dating world. If things go well, set a traveling date so you can meet your new flame.
For your own protection, common sense suggests you verify the woman is real first. There are a few ways to do this.
The seedy side of the mail-order bride business
There are always concerns about human trafficking. Rest assured, while this does exist, reputable agencies don’t cater to it. These women are there of there own volition.
Also, lying is a problem straight across the board and it’s hard to fact check a women across the globe. Always confirm their ages.
Some men have complained the relationship changed once their bride arrived stateside. Maybe they discovered she was a nightmarish gold-digger or lacked passion and romance. This could have been avoided with early vigilance during courtship.
Another concern is scam artists. There’s a high presence of online scammers worldwide. Online dating is no different.
Then, isn't it too risky?
The short answer is no. As long as you take common sense measures to protect yourself, you need not fear any of these. Remember, if it doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t.
A happy ending??
The truth is there are risks in any relationship. This is the nature of the world. But, for love and happiness, perhaps the risks are worth it. It’s up to you to be prudent in all your affairs. Love is no different.
The facts and statistics show many American men have found shared contentment and marital bliss with foreign women. A relationship is what you make it. Make it a point of purpose to assure yours has a happy ending. After all, to be happy in love is our instinctual desire to begin with.
About the blogger: Krystyna is an International dating blogger, coach and iDate speaker. She is on mission to help Western men to understand foreign women better and how to succeed on the International dating websites.
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