I cannot understand one thing. There are so many articles, blog posts, video tutorials and forum threads on online dating scam and men could learn so much from all these contents. BUT a lot of Western men looking for a foreign lady have been still tricked – again and again.
As Svetlana Mukha, a founder and leading matchmaker at diolli.com, mentioned in her interview, some men just want to become a scam victim (I have no idea why, it might be a topic for my next article…). So that’s why I decided to help those men and give some advice how to get scammed by Ukrainian and Russian online dating fraud.
Western men who are trying to get scammed online just to go along for the ride need to know all of the warning signs for the scammers that are out there. You can learn this stuff pretty easily by reading my article, and you need to make sure that you are looking for these things in every profile you check out. Finding these qualities will make it much easier for you to get scammed or at least have fun in the fraud process.
Here are some tips how to get scammed in Ukrainian online dating:
1. Look only for very young Ukrainian and Russian women
You are between 45 and 60 y.o. Age gap does not mean nothing to you. You have to start by searching for Ukrainian and Russian mail order brides who are 20-30 years younger than you. That is where most of these profiles are, and it is going to make it easy for them to use the right pictures and take on the personality.
No one knows who is going to be on the other side of the account, but this is going to be the easiest way for you to get to the right accounts for a scam.
2. Does the woman’s photo look too good to be true? No problem at all!
According to DailyMail.co.uk, 25% of online daters use Photoshop to improve their profile images. Find the profiles that have the obvious pictures with supermodels and hot chicks in the profile. No compromise! A lot of people have actually seen these pictures before, and it is rare that anyone has concerns about the photoshoped pictures.
That is just the only pictures that Ukrainian supermodels could find to put on the account (and yes, Ukrainian and Russian supermodels have big difficulties to find a man in their home countries). Good news: that is going to bring you close to a scam account, and it is going to make it a little more fun because at least the pictures are hot because they are too good to be true. Be positive! Photoshop your profile photo, too.
3. Send money to the woman you hardly know online
In my articles, I discussed possible reasons why men still send money to women from Ukraine and Russia they hardly know. One of the possible reasons is that they just want to seem useful even if they know they are getting scammed.
That is something that is hard to understand because it is so obvious when these women are asking for money and they are making it easy for you to get scammed. Guys who want to get scammed will just send the money, but there are other guys who are looking for girls to just financially dominate them. That makes it even easier when they that that is what they are looking for.
4. Be in love with professional pro-daters
Russian and Ukrainian pro-daters and gold diggers are even more fun for some guys because it is clear that the girl is real, but she is not really interested in anything other than money and having a good time on someone else’s dime.
This is a sure sing that it is a scam, but it could be fun in the meantime. These are even girls that these guys will be able to meet, but there is no doubt that these girls are never going to put out. They might want to if they are really slutty, but most guys are going to get a kiss at best. They do not even care because these girls are hot.
5. Use online dating services with a very bad reputation
Some online dating services have such a bad reputation that anyone looking for a real date would never go there, but that is the perfect place for you to go when you are looking for scammers or women who are not genuine.
A unrealiable and unserious dating site is an easy place to scout because all the accounts look like they are fake and like too beautiful and perfect to be true (see my tip #2), but that is the perfect place to go when you wants to make sure that they are going to get scammed.
and you could get scammed by a bunch of “girls” at once.
6. Fall madly in love after 1-2 messages
Russian and Ukrainian brides who are totally in love after a couple messages are really a good sign that there is a scam going on. They want to make sure that you are going to be hooked, and they can make sure that it is easy for people to get attached.
The attachment is going to make it much easier for the woman to get whatever she wants, and she will love the way it feels when you are hooked. In my opinion, a lot of these guys want to be scammed because it is an adventure, and these girls are going to make these guys feel great before they finally end things after getting a lot of money out of the dating in the first place.
Guys, you are free to get scammed any time they want because there are plenty of Russian and Ukrainian online dating scammers out there who are ready to take their money and make life difficult.
This could be a pretty big problem for guys who actually want a date, and they can just follow these steps to skip over those girls.
Guys who want to get scammed and have some kind of whirlwind fling with a girl will be able to do that when they are picking out girls that have accounts like this.
I believe that Ukrainian and Russian scammers are really easy to pick out because they are so obvious. These girls are going to look too good to be true, but that can make it fun in the meantime. There is always a girl out there scamming dudes for fun.
About the blogger: Krystyna is an International dating blogger, coach and iDate speaker. She is on mission to help Western men to understand foreign women better and how to succeed on the International dating websites.
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