5 Possible Reasons You’re Not Her Priority Anymore

Dear friends,

When in a relationship, it is normal to want to be your partner’s priority as it is the best way to show that they value you. However, there are times that you may feel likes less of a priority to your partner, and it is also okay.

Furthermore, you should not expect to be the only important thing in someone’s life. The only time you should be worried is when you start noticing that you are not a priority at all.

This article will shed some light on why you are not her priority anymore and what to do about it. Read on to learn more.

Top5 reasons you're not her priority anymore

Here we go with the top5 reasons you are not her priority anymore:

1. She is not interested in you anymore

Is she not replying to your texts as fast as she did before, and you feel like you are the one putting all the effort into the relationship?

This can be a sign that she is not interested in you. If your girlfriend starts to show signs that you are not her priority anymore, there is a high possibility that she is not interested in you like before.

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Women can easily lose interest in a man if the man stops being what they fell for. For example, you may have been good and valued other’s opinions at the beginning of the relationship but became grumpy as time passed. Women hate it when their boyfriends no longer sound like they should and don’t respect their views.

She may also lose interest if she notices that your priorities have changed, or you no longer share similar values and principles, like not showing her that she is not special through your actions and the decisions you make.

Since no woman wants to be placed at the bottom of the priorities list, any sign that she is not among what you hold dear will make her fed up.

2. She got another guy

Though it is not the best scenario, your girl can stop having you as her priority if she has met or is dating someone else. If she has made this decision, there is nothing more you can do because she believes that the other guy is better than you. 

Instead of stalking her or sitting back and crying, you can go out and hang out with your friends and look for ways to meet other girls.

3. She has other plans, e.g. career or study

If your girlfriend is too ambitious and passionate about her career, you should not expect too much time and attention as she puts her job as her priority.

The worst thing you can do is complain about this every time, as she will most likely prefer her career over you. However, you can show her that you value what she does and support her. This will make her feel that she is in a relationship with someone special.

4. She wants to be on her own

Sometimes, a girl may want to be out of a relationship even if she has not found another man. Since not every relationship ends with marriage, she has the right to leave if she is no longer interested in you.

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Most women will pull back from a relationship if she does not see any future with you.

5. You have too high expectations

In this age of social media, people can have preconceived notions about how a relationship should be and how their partners should treat them.

While knowing how you should be treated in a relationship is a good thing, there are times when your expectations will not match with what your better half can or is willing to fulfil, thus causing frequent misunderstandings in the relationship.

If you continue holding on to your unrealistic expectations, your partner may start losing interest in you because they will be convinced that you have no future together.

What do you do when you're not her priority anymore?

It is horrible to discover that you are no longer your partner’s priority, but it is even worse if you get into the unhealthy cycle of showing them that they should make more time for you in their life. 

If you have been experiencing the feeling that you are not one of your girlfriend’s priorities, and you are wondering how you can change it, below are some of the things you can do.

Understand her thinking

Sometimes, it is important to understand your partner’s thinking before you call it quits. Many things can make your girlfriend seem like she has lost her interest in you, like when she has a sick relative she is taking care of or a hectic day at work. 

Women can also act like they are not interested to see how long you can play chase. Understanding the main reason why she has stopped seeing you as a priority is the only way you can discern if she still loves you or not.

Keep your other options open

If you are sure that she has lost interest in you and you are still new in your relationship, our advice to you is to start keeping your other options open. If she is not treating you like she should, you should keep the other options open and avoid committing to her too early.

You can focus on improving your emotional connection as partners to begin forming a relationship that will make her treat you like a priority and want to spend more time with you. There is a high possibility that your girlfriend will start opening up to you about herself once you become an important part of her life.

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Respect her other priorities

Since everyone has some other priorities, it is advisable to give them space to do what they love to do, and they will recognise it. If you are obsessed with becoming your girlfriend’s priority, you may end up making the situation worse. Worrying about whether you are one of her priorities or whether she loves you will not make her commit to you.

In any relationship, it is important to stop worrying about what may happen in the future and take your time to discover your partner and whether you are compatible. If you see a connection with her, you can start developing a deep emotional connection with her, and she will commit to you with time.

It is also important to focus on the other important things in your life instead of fighting to have her attention. She is more likely to get attracted to you once she sees that you have an exciting life outside your relationship.

Did you know that a man's confidence is paramount in a relationship? Women love confident men more than men who are always obsessed over what their partner is doing or thinking.
Krystyna
International dating blogger

Be confident

Be confident when around her and aspire to be the most confident version of yourself, and she will be more attracted to you and want to spend more time with you again.

If you make your life more interesting and fun, she will definitely want to be part of it, thus fighting for your attention again.

Have your expectations but avoid comparing your situation

Though everyone has some expectations when getting in a relationship, it is not advisable to compare your situation with that of other people or what you see on social media, TV and in movies. Remember that what people present on social media is different from what they do behind closed doors.

It is also important to accept that your partner has other relationships (like family and friends) and passions, and they cannot drop all of them to give you all her attention. So, you should eliminate any unrealistic expectation as it will never happen.

Figure out why you feel as if you are not her priority

If you find yourself constantly worried that your girlfriend has lost interest in you even though you spend a lot of time together and she has not stopped showing love and affection, there may be a possibility that you feel insecure with your partner.

The reason why you want to spend all your time with her could be because you don’t completely trust her.

You should analyse the situation deeply and identify what is causing them. If your insecurities are why you want her close to you all the time, it is advisable to solve them before you commit yourself.

Final thought

As a man, you may want undivided attention from your girlfriend, but that may not happen as they also have other priorities like friends, family, work, hobbies and many more. She may also lose interest in you if she has found another man or wants to be on her own.

However, you can change the situation by following the tips above, like giving her space for her other priorities and building your confidence instead of worrying about what may happen.

About the blogger: Krystyna is an International dating blogger, coach and iDate speaker. She is on mission to help Western men to understand foreign women better and how to succeed on the International dating websites.
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