If you are here today, chances are that you want to try online dating. You’ve probably also heard that some dating websites can’t be trusted and how careful you need to be because there are so many romance scam artists that want your money, identity, or more.
Well, here’s an unvarnished review of AsiaMe.
If you were thinking of signing up to AsiaMe, one of the Asian online dating platforms out there, perhaps think again. You’ll know why soon.
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AsiaMe - The Summary About the Service
AsiaMe is part of the AML Network (or Qpid Network) and has been matching up singles to find their perfect match since 1998.
This is AsiaMe’s overall aim: to help those who are single meet their ideal Asian soulmate. AsiaMe also wants to help you build a successful and committed relationship with the Asian love of your life.
The company is a merger of two other dating sites: ChnLove and iDateAsia. The reason behind the merge? To provide singles like you with more dating options – all on one platform. Convenient, right?
Men from any country and nationality can sign up, while only women from Asian descent can register on AsiaMe. In fact, most of the female AsiaMe members are from China, Vietnam, and Thailand.
The AsiaMe dating site is available in English, French, and German. And they also have two sister platforms: CharmDate.com and LatamDate.com.
How Do You Set Up Your Profile at AsiaMe?
Visit AsiaMe.com’s homepage if you want to sign up. Once you’ve registered, you can create your profile. On the homepage, you can sign up on the right-hand side next to the happy couple who’s taking a selfie.
Underneath the red “meet caring & attractive singles from Asia” headline, you need to fill in your:
- First name
- Last name
- Gender (man/woman options only)
- Birthday
- Email address
- Password
Then you need to check the box to say you agree to the T&Cs. Click on “Find My Matches,” and you’re signed up.
You’ll have to verify your email, so check your inbox once you’ve filled in the first form. Then you’ll also have to answer questions about your ideal match. Be prepared to fill in information about your soulmate’s age, education, hobbies, and more.
If you want to change your preferences later, you can. Go to “Smart Matches” and revise your answers regarding your love interests. Ensuring this information is as accurate as possible helps the platform to provide the best match suggestions to you.
You can now create your dating profile by adding information about your preferences, hobbies, and so on. You can also use the site’s tag feature to choose descriptions that match who you are, and AsiaMe will then auto-generate a paragraph about you using the tags you chose.
Kindly note, you can’t change any of the information you provided during the sign up process that appears on your profile. Once your profile is set up, AsiaMe.com gives you free points or vouchers that you can use as credits.
Your profile is also linked to all the sites on the Qpid Network.
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Does AsiaMe Have a Mobile App?
AsiaMe doesn’t have an app that’s exclusively AsiaMe’s. Instead, the app is part of the Qpid Network, and aptly named “Qpid Network: International Dating App.”
You can download the app from the Google Play Store and the App Store; however, it is only available in some countries. From the app, you can access all the Qpid Network dating sites (and remember, your profile is already linked to these, so it’s an easy switch).
AsiaMe also has a mobile-friendly version of their site in case you can’t download the app in your country. Simply visit AsiaMe.com and click on the Mobile App icon below the main image of the couple taking a selfie (or type m.asiame.com in your mobile device’s web browser).
User Quality in Our Check (The Profiles Look Fake and Not Real)
The basic profiles on AsiaMe.com aren’t very detailed. Just like the profile you created, that’s what you see of every Asian lady on the site.
As a free user, you can view only a limited number of photos; however, you can see any lady’s profile pic.
Looking at the profiles, many look fake. The photos look staged and heavily photoshopped – or like they were taken straight from some magazine covers.
Usability and Interface of the Platform
Let’s look at the app first. The app is similar to AsiaMe’s website: simple and user-friendly. You can see the profiles as you browse, looking for your lady love, and you also get match recommendations.
Whatever you can do on AsiaMe’s website, you can do on the app.
AsiaMe is very focused on providing you with ways to communicate and connect with your love interests, and as such, you can find all the communication features you’d need on the dating platform.
Free and Fee-Based Services at AsiaMe.Com Compared
There are quite a few differences when looking at what you can do as a free member on AsiaMe versus what you can do if you pay for services.
The free services on AsiaMe.com includes:
- Signing up
- Creating a profile
- Searching and browsing
- Uploading a profile photo
- Viewing profile photos of other members as you browse
- Viewing the profiles of match recommendations and other members
- Viewing a restricted number of photos
- Access to a “fast” customer service
- Access to safety and security features
If you pay, you can access these additional services:
- Live chat, video chat, and call your love interests
- Unlimited viewing of the photos on a member’s profile
- Priority response when you get in touch with customer service
- Sending gifts and flowers
- Bonus point when sending your first letter to your Asian love
The AsiaMe Costs in an Overview
You pay a monthly subscription fee when you use the AsiaMe platform and app, and you need to buy credits too.
The Asian online dating tool works on a credit system, so you buy credits and then use the credits to pay for the services you’d like to use.
Here’s how much the 3 credit bundle options will cost you:
- 2 credits - US$2.00 per credit - for a total of US$3.99 (this seems like an introductory offer only, so the next time you want to buy 2 credits, you may US$15.99)
- 16 credits - US$6.00 per credit - for a total of US$96.00
- 100 credits - US$3.99 per credit - for a total of US$399.99
When you buy a credit bundle, you also get a month of free Premium membership, which is valued at US$9.99. You get:
- 5 mails
- 20 minutes worth of chat
- View all profile photos
Thereafter, you’ll need to renew your membership at US$9.99 per month and buy credits to communicate with your Asian lover.
So once you’ve bought the credits, what can you spend them on?
- 1 credit: send or read a mail
- 0.5 credit: 5 minutes of live chat (text only)
- 1 credit: 5 minutes of video chat (1-way only)
- 0.6 credit: 1 minutes of CamShare (or 2-way video chat)
- 1 credit: phone call for a minute
Customer Reviews of AsiaMe at Trustpilot & Sitejabber
Let’s see what AsiaMe users think of the service. I’m going to check AsiaMe.com’s reviews on two trusted platforms: Trustpilot and Sitejabber.
On Trustpilot, AsiaMe has an average 3.6 star rating from 159 reviews. So the dating service is rated “Average.”
AsiaMe has claimed their profile on Trustpilot, but they haven’t replied to any negative reviews.
From “Bad” to “Excellent,” here’s how many reviewers rated Asia:
- Excellent - 16%
- Great - 40%
- Average - 19%
- Poor - 2%
- Bad - 23%
Some of the headlines for 4 to 5 star reviews are “difficult searching” (seems it takes a long time for the search results to pop up), “online dating isn’t that bad,” and “easy if you don’t have stereotypes.”
On the other hand, the 1 star reviews’ headlines are “you will never communicate off site” (and you won’t), “so many games and lies” (where the person received the exact same letter from multiple “other ladies”), and “Asian spam email scam.”
Sitejabber has 193 reviews for AsiaMe and the dating service gets a 2.9 star rating overall, meaning that users are generally dissatisfied.
Here’s how many reviewers rated AsiaMe from 5 stars to 1 star:
- 5 stars - 4 users
- 4 stars - 25 users
- 3 stars - 113 users
- 2 stars - 5 users
- 1 star - 45 users
This is pretty similar to Trustpilot where the majority rates AsiaMe as Average or 3 stars, except more users rated the service with a 1 star on Sitejabber.
The headlines from some of the 1 star reviews are “feels like a scam,” “nothing more than a money grab,” and “worst I’ve ever seen.”
The more positive headlines are “nice app,” “too many pop-ups!” and “came out of my shell.”
What Security Features Does AsiaMe Have?
There are a few safety features AsiaMe claims to have.
- All transactions are SSL encrypted
- On the About Us page, the company displays “GoDaddy verified and secured” and “McAfee Secure” badges
- They state they use an advanced fraud-prevention and online purchasing system
- A whole Client Protection Policy
How Do I Delete My AsiaMe Account?
You need to contact AsiaMe’s customer service support team if you want to cancel your account.
You can mail them at [email protected] or call them on 1-800-931-5079.
Our Verdict: AsiaMe is not a good site to find an Asian bride
Ready for my final verdict on AsiaMe?
I can’t in good conscience recommend AsiaMe because of the:
- Many fake profiles
- Chats that are run by a company team (like the same letter from various different profiles)
- VERY expensive credit system (one reviewer said it would cost him US$200 or more per month just to talk to one Asian girl) AND you need to pay a monthly membership fee!
- Poor customer reviews (as you just read about on Sitejabber and Trustpilot).
Sure, some people have “come out of their shell” and probably found love on AsiaMe.
But do you really want to take the chance, only to meet “fake women” and spend a ton of money to communicate with your love interests?
If you ask me, you don’t. There are many other and better Asian online dating sites you can rather use to meet the love of your life.
Last Updated on June 09, 2024

Meet Krystyna, an esteemed international dating expert, blogger, and the founder of Ukrainian Dating Blog. With over 1000 articles published in English and German, she specializes in cross-cultural relationships, prevalent dating topics, and tackling romance scams.